The other day I was in
our local grocery store and a little boy wanted his momma to buy
him something because a favorite cartoon character was on the box.
It was obvious that the woman didn't have the money to get everything
she needed, much less "Johnny's" item. She said "no"
and tried to go on about her business. Little Johnny wasn't going
to give up so easily. He began the begging routine, trying to wear
her down. When that didn't bring about the desired result, little
Johnny began doing the fit throwing thing. The little lady didn't
have a clue I was inwardly hoping she'd put her foot down and take
control, instead of allowing the kid to rule the roost. (I'm sure
I wasn't the only one in the store feeling that way.) But no, she
gave in, and rewarded "Johnny" for his unacceptable behavior....reinforcing
his belief that if he just gets loud enough and angry enough and
obnoxious enough....he will always get what he wants in life. What
a wonderful man he'll turn out to be.
We in America
seem to think that without any discipline whatsoever, we can become
what we want to be, our children will turn out wonderful, our
horses will automatically handle like we want them to, and our
nation will always be strong! NOT! Discipline has gotten such
an ugly name in our society that we equate it with a lack of love.
Try and correct a child at school, and the teacher has to fight
the entire system AND the parents, PLUS be willing to look like
Attila the Hun in the process! I saw the news a while back, where
a bus driver was containing an unruly boy through force, and they're
filing charges against him. They should give the guy a medal!
I remember when I rode the bus (back when there were dinosaurs),
one teenage boy was causing all sorts of trouble, our bus driver
threw him off the bus and left him about 10 miles out of town.
We cheered! He later allowed that young man to ride the bus again,
after he sincerely apologized to the bus driver in front of us
all. There was peace after that, and furthermore, no one dared
challenge his authority again!
Nothing good
comes into being without discipline. SOMEBODY paid a price to
be good at what they do, or who they have become. Leave discipline
out, and sooner or later, whatever it is, it erodes into total
chaos and disorder. Whether it's a home, church, school, a business.....or
a nation; without discipline, the quality of life quickly deteriorates.
We in America have gotten consumed with protecting the "rights"
and "feelings" of the lawless and unruly, to the point
that it's insane! No wonder when God moves on someone's heart
to clean up their lives, they rationalize that it can't be the
voice of God because, "God wants me happy" and He wouldn't
require me to do something hard! Discipline. Do we have the guts
for it? For the sake of freedom and future generations, we had
better embrace it again in our society, our homes, schools and
our churches......or I can promise......it will certainly get
uglier!